A Mother’s Heart by Sonya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

With Mother’s Day approaching, I wanted to share my heart as a mom and what I have learned from being a mother. This role is one of the hardest things I will ever do in my life but the most rewarding. When I say hard, as a mother you have to be intentional and can’t sit on the sidelines when you raise your children. As a mother, God wired us to be the nurturer and feel compassion for our children. God has given us qualities that we are to bestow on our children and Proverbs 31 explains it.

As you learn and understand Proverbs 31, here are some key things: “Who find a …woman (with a mother heart)? For her price is far above rubies… She … works willingly with her hands… With the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard… She reaches out her hand to the poor… Strength and honor are her clothing… She opens her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looks well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.” (Prov. 31:10, 13, 16, 20, 25-27) These verses show a mother’s heart and how unselfish and hard working she is for her family. Motherhood is not for the selfish and lazy! You give of your time and talents each and every day and don’t ask anything in return.

I remember the days when my kids where little and I was so exhausted. I wondered if my children really appreciated all that I did for them. Now that my four kids are older, they write me notes and tell me all the time how much they love me and appreciate all I do for them. The notes that stand out are the ones saying I want to be like you and thank you for teaching me about Jesus. That is what brings joy to my heart to see them love Jesus more and more and become more like Him. What rewards your heart as mom? Are we mothering to bring joy to our heavenly Father?

Our children are a gift from God and we have a big assignment as a mother to share the gospel and love of Jesus. Our mother’s hearts should be on mission to share Christ through our love and actions. It isn’t to be done perfectly, thank goodness, as we serve a perfect God and believe me I mess up every day and there is no perfect mom. But we have God to guide our children and lead them in His perfect way and will for their lives.  Having a heart to teach your children the bible and how to pray is rewarding. It takes a lot of work to invest in your children but don’t give up on sharing the truth even if your kids reject it as you are planting the seeds that one day will harvest.

As moms you are on a mission field to guide and raise your children according to God’s word and it can seem overwhelming, but know that you don’t have to do it alone, as God will lead you! Learning to have a mother’s heart takes unselfishness, kindness, love, and boldness to not fit in like the world wants to mold us, but to be transformed into a mother that God has designed each of you to be. Moms you have a light that shines bright and are one of your children’s biggest role models. Be the influence and show the heart of our heavenly Father that gives grace and overflows with love. Have the heart of a mother that cultivates Godly character in your kids and allows them to dream big and fulfill the plans God has for them. Don’t underestimate your job as a mother because in the end, your children see you as their “Hero and #1 Fan.” Be blessed this Mother’s Day and hear the words ending in Proverbs 31: 28, “Her children rise up and call her blessed.” Happy Mother’s Day!

 

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Happy Hour by Bombi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ever since I’ve entered back into the work force as a mom I quickly adopted a favorite time of day. It truly is the happiest part of my day. A time to let my hair down, let my guard down, and just let loose. My co-workers agree that this is their favorite hour as well. As a matter of fact, throughout the years I’ve been invited to enjoy happy hour with them. However, I have an ongoing decline to their invite.

You see, my happy hour isn’t the same as theirs. I have a happy hour all my own. Mine doesn’t include chips, salsa, and a martini at the nearby bar. No my friends, my happy hour is the hour I get to go home. It’s the first moments I get to see the faces of my kids and the man I love. Happy hour includes, “How was your day?” and, “Did you find out what grade you got on your test?” and also, “What did you guys want to eat for dinner?” I don’t know if you’ve found it commonplace to meet folks with families who are constantly trying to escape them, but I seem to find them all around me. They might not notice that in passing they air their frustrations about their “baby of a husband” or “annoying kids they can’t wait to send off.” If this is news to you, I apologize, but sadly it’s no exaggeration. These statements are ones I’ve actually heard, and more than once.  While no one’s earthly life is perfect, I can tell you that mine is blessed and an answer to prayer.

I can remember like it was yesterday, trying to be a good mom to my daughter, as a single mom at times it was hard and exhausting, and at times lonely, but I always loved being a mom, and I always desired in my heart to have a chance to parent alongside someone who loved and respected us both. I also desired to have a son, but I wasn’t about to go have a baby out of wedlock to fulfill this secret want. But in the midst of life God heard my heart and within time, I got a chance to know life as I experience it now. It’s one where I don’t have to escape my life and family by being at some neighborhood bar. It’s a life that I don’t dread or want to run away from. It’s one where my husband shares the same sentiment, so rather than run from his place as a leader in our home, he runs to home. It’s a life where I not only have a precious daughter, but also the son I longed for.

Life now isn’t all roses and sunshine at every moment. But it’s still a dream come true, and as I said earlier, it’s an answer to prayer. It’s one I could only daydream about at one point, but now experience it all the time. It’s a life that I know in just a few short years or so, my husband and I will transition into an “empty-nest” so to speak, but one where I don’t have to sit alone as I watch my daughter go off and live life as an adult. It’s a life where we can experience together sending both of our kids into the world to be the best they can be. It’s a life of lots of laughter, and sometimes tears, and prayers, and meals, and talks, and stay at home movies, and homework, and basketball practice, and choir concerts, and all and everything in between. It’s a life of happy hour every day. It’s a blessed life, and I thank God I get to be a mother to my Avery and Noel.  I also thank God I get to do it not by myself, but with my precious, passionate, servant-leader of a husband.

So for any parent reading this, or if you one day hope to be, I challenge you to change the worlds definition of “Happy Hour.”  I encourage you to realize that your life doesn’t have to be one where you’re daily yearning to escape your family to find a breather, but one where you’re experiencing and cherishing the blessing that God always intended it to be. Because in case you forgot, “those kids” aren’t a burden, they are your true reward.

Psalm 127:3-5(NKJV)

3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,

The fruit of the womb is a reward.

4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,

So are the children of one’s youth.

5 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;

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The Power of A Seed by Trish

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have you ever taken a moment to look at, evaluate and appreciate the power of a seed? When held in the hand it looks so small, fragile, powerless and can be overlooked as insignificant. However, when planted in fertile ground, nurtured and tended to, the contents of the seed are forced to break forth and manifest the power it holds. Ironically enough it contained the power all along, it just needed to be placed in the right environment and cultivated.

So it is with our lives. We have limitless power to become bigger and better than what we are in our present state. I wonder how differently we would treat people if we could see beyond the shell of their exterior and see the power of the seed that is on the inside of them. Could it be we are walking past gold mines every day but are only captivated by what the human eye sees?

I received a letter this week from a former student of mine from years ago. I met this young man when he just a young boy. He lived a very troubled life that led him down a path of destruction and turmoil. Many gave up on him, as it seemed as though he was a “hopeless case.” His own choices did lead him to consequences and much regret, yet as I read his letter tears ran down my face because the words penned seemed as though they were from a completely different person. Such heartfelt words of sincerity and expression of a true relationship with Christ. I was in complete awe. It’s only the power of Christ’s love that can change a heart and transform a life. Yet all along, he had the potential within him to be great. Though others may not have seen it, God knew it because He’s the one who created him.

I urge us all to cultivate greatness in those around us. Speak life over those who need encouragement. They may not even know the treasure that is within them.

Each of us were created with purpose and destiny! We should also desire to achieve our own greatness that God has called us to. Keep in mind that “greatness” looks different for each person and should not be measured by the world’s standards. In order to cultivate this seed of greatness, we can take note from a couple of things a seed needs to grow:

  • The right environment

Plant yourself among people who bring out your best and challenge you to become better. Remove toxic people from your space. Create an atmosphere in your home that helps you grow. We can set the tone in our home by playing praise and worship. Nothing changes an environment more than an atmosphere where God is welcome! Be mindful of what you listen to, what you speak, and whom you allow to speak into you life.

  • Water Daily

Water provides refreshment to the soil that is cultivating the seed. So it is when we spend time with God. We allow His Word to refresh us and cause us to grow in our faith. His Word brings understanding, it brings revelation and it brings life. Create a lifestyle that includes spending time with God daily. Talk to Him, read your Word and learn and grow daily!

There is greatness in you. You may not see the fullness of your potential right now but it is there! Be patient. Just like the seed is placed in isolation and in what seems a cold and dark space. It’s only temporary, allowing time to nurture something very beautiful. Never underestimate the power of a seed. What was once hidden will soon be revealed for all to see, the beauty of what was there all along.

 

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The Big Day by Kenika

           

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A little over three months ago I got engaged to my husband to be.  It was so exciting for my family, my friends, and me as I was seemingly thrust into a season that I had only dreamed of. We decided on a short engagement, which means an upcoming wedding in the month of May! There I was just minding my business in life and experiencing the highs and lows of a standard boyfriend girlfriend relationship, when all of a sudden I became a “bride to be.” Nothing super spiritual to offer up here, but the gravity of it all sunk in pretty quickly as different elements became so vital. The ring on my hand secured itself as becoming the most important piece of jewelry I had ever owned. Not just the most important ring, but the most important, valuable and sentimental of every piece in my possession.   As I was picking out my dress I thought, “Whoa, this is the most important dress purchase I’ve ever made.”  The same emotions were present while planning the honeymoon trip, every accessory that will be worn on the day and so on.

My background is in event management. I’ve organized and led countless events, conferences and concerts all over the world, literally, during the course of my life.  I’ve also helped to coordinate and assist at weddings of close friends but again, no event will come to be as important to me as our own wedding day.  The most important venue, caterer, dessert, tablecloths, and centerpieces you name it.  All of that is taken care of and my mind and my prayers have gone to the vows and commitment I will make to who is now the most important man in my life, outside of Jesus of course.  I’m preparing my heart and my mind to speak the most crucial words and promises I’ve ever made.  Promises that I will profess and fully intend to never break.  Outside of the prayer of salvation, there hasn’t been a declaration from my lips that has carried so much weight.  To love, cherish, obey, in sickness and in health until death separate us. That is pretty heavy stuff!

As the checklist dwindles I am more ready now than ever to say, “I do.”  At the beginning the exterior elements got me thinking of their importance, but as the day draws near I’ve shifted to the importance of the interior elements as well. I’m not only ready because I’m a decent planner with event details, but I’m also ready because God has lovingly been preparing me for this extremely important day for a long time.   We are in the home stretch to becoming man and wife; please pray for us during this significant time!

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