With Mother’s Day approaching, I wanted to share my heart as a mom and what I have learned from being a mother. This role is one of the hardest things I will ever do in my life but the most rewarding. When I say hard, as a mother you have to be intentional and can’t sit on the sidelines when you raise your children. As a mother, God wired us to be the nurturer and feel compassion for our children. God has given us qualities that we are to bestow on our children and Proverbs 31 explains it.
As you learn and understand Proverbs 31, here are some key things: “Who find a …woman (with a mother heart)? For her price is far above rubies… She … works willingly with her hands… With the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard… She reaches out her hand to the poor… Strength and honor are her clothing… She opens her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looks well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.” (Prov. 31:10, 13, 16, 20, 25-27) These verses show a mother’s heart and how unselfish and hard working she is for her family. Motherhood is not for the selfish and lazy! You give of your time and talents each and every day and don’t ask anything in return.
I remember the days when my kids where little and I was so exhausted. I wondered if my children really appreciated all that I did for them. Now that my four kids are older, they write me notes and tell me all the time how much they love me and appreciate all I do for them. The notes that stand out are the ones saying I want to be like you and thank you for teaching me about Jesus. That is what brings joy to my heart to see them love Jesus more and more and become more like Him. What rewards your heart as mom? Are we mothering to bring joy to our heavenly Father?
Our children are a gift from God and we have a big assignment as a mother to share the gospel and love of Jesus. Our mother’s hearts should be on mission to share Christ through our love and actions. It isn’t to be done perfectly, thank goodness, as we serve a perfect God and believe me I mess up every day and there is no perfect mom. But we have God to guide our children and lead them in His perfect way and will for their lives. Having a heart to teach your children the bible and how to pray is rewarding. It takes a lot of work to invest in your children but don’t give up on sharing the truth even if your kids reject it as you are planting the seeds that one day will harvest.
As moms you are on a mission field to guide and raise your children according to God’s word and it can seem overwhelming, but know that you don’t have to do it alone, as God will lead you! Learning to have a mother’s heart takes unselfishness, kindness, love, and boldness to not fit in like the world wants to mold us, but to be transformed into a mother that God has designed each of you to be. Moms you have a light that shines bright and are one of your children’s biggest role models. Be the influence and show the heart of our heavenly Father that gives grace and overflows with love. Have the heart of a mother that cultivates Godly character in your kids and allows them to dream big and fulfill the plans God has for them. Don’t underestimate your job as a mother because in the end, your children see you as their “Hero and #1 Fan.” Be blessed this Mother’s Day and hear the words ending in Proverbs 31: 28, “Her children rise up and call her blessed.” Happy Mother’s Day!